Do You Make New Year’s Resolutions?

This entry was posted on Dec 31, 2019 by Charlotte Bell.

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Is the New Year’s resolution a thing of the past? An antiquated practice moving inexorably toward extinction? If you read the numbers, you could easily get that impression. According to a recent poll, 63 percent of Americans claim they do not make a resolution. Only 6 percent said they stuck to their 2018 resolutions 100 percent, while 14 percent say they “mostly” stuck to them.

Despite the not-so-inspiring numbers, the new year seems like an appropriate time to assess where you’ve been and how you’d like to steer your life. I think the trick is to make resolutions that inspire you and that you have a chance of keeping. You’ll have a better chance of keeping your resolutions if you first figure out how you can fit them into your life. Keep it simple. Start with one, the one that most inspires you.

 

Make Your Resolution Stick

In project management circles, following the acronym “S.M.A.R.T.” has been successful in helping people achieve goals. Here’s what the letters stand for:

S is for “specific.” If you resolve to improve your health, simply repeating those words is not enough. It’s way too amorphous. There are infinite ways you can achieve that goal and a whole lot of definitions of what “healthy” means. If you’re vague about it your mind can easily get overwhelmed by all the options. Be specific. For example, resolve to cut out sugar, up your exercise through walking, running, yoga, spinning—whatever you choose. But start with one thing that will help you achieve your goal.

M is for “measurable.” Using the same “get healthier” example, set a goal you can actually be accountable for. For example, resolve to walk 30 minutes four or five times a week, attend a yoga class once or twice a week, or resolve to practice yoga and/or meditation on your own five times a week.

A is for “attainable.” This one is so important. If you set out to run an hour a day spend seven days at the gym, cut out all sugar and change to a vegan diet, it ain’t gonna happen. The most likely outcome is that you’ll get discouraged and quit. Assess your schedule. What can you realistically fit into your life? Perhaps you’ll have to give up some Facebook or TV time to achieve your goal, but that’s probably not a bad thing. Start small, say 10 minutes of yoga a day or a brisk 10-minute walk around the block. Chances are as you start to feel more vibrant you’ll naturally want to do more, and you’ll be more likely to find time for it.

R is for “relevant.” Is your resolution something that’s relevant to the life you’re living? You can argue that good health is always relevant—and it is—but is your plan for achieving it compatible with your life? Check in with what you feel when you think about accomplishing your resolution. When you picture yourself achieving it, do you feel inspired? If so, then go for it.

T is for “time-bound.” There’s nothing more inspiring than a deadline. I’d probably still be revising my first book (published in 2007) if I hadn’t been fortunate enough to have Rodmell Press give me a firm deadline. Even if you don’t have an outside entity to impose a timeline on you, you can easily do this yourself. Of course, make it attainable and reasonable.

Here’s one more that doesn’t fit into the acronym: If you miss a day or lapse for a bit, it’s not the end of the world. What you do or don’t do once in a while isn’t nearly as important as the long-term goals you’ve set. It’s really okay. Just get back on the horse and keep riding.

 

About Charlotte Bell
Charlotte Bell discovered yoga in 1982 and began teaching in 1986. Charlotte is the author of Mindful Yoga, Mindful Life: A Guide for Everyday Practice, published by Rodmell Press. Her second book, Yoga for Meditators (Rodmell Press) was published in May 2012. She writes a monthly column for CATALYST Magazine and serves as editor for Yoga U Online. Charlotte is a founding board member for GreenTREE Yoga, a non-profit that brings yoga to schools and to underserved populations. A lifelong musician, Charlotte plays oboe and English horn in the Salt Lake Symphony and folk sextet Red Rock Rondo, whose DVD won two Emmy awards in 2010.